Why does it seem we care more about others farther away than those in our own community? Ten people died in a college shooting this past week. Everyone had something to say about it from politicians to the TaurusPT191145semi-automaticpistolmedia to the guy next door. Yet, people are shot everyday in our own cities, and no one seems to want to do anything about that.

When something tragic happens on a large scale, we yell and scream at our government to fix it, yet we are not willing to do anything when the same tragedy occurs on a smaller scale. We have a tendency to be less concerned for those who die daily from the same type of violence.

I think a lot of that has to do with being fearful. After all, what are the chances someone is going to do a drive-by shooting in your neighborhood? But a couple of teenagers shooting up a mall or a school takes away our sense of security. It becomes more about our own safety.

Philippians 2:4 states, Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. We need to be just as concerned about the guy next door as we are a gunman across the country.

Too often we give a sigh of relief when we realize it didn’t happen to anyone we know. But it could. We need to be aware of what is going on in our own neighborhoods, especially when it comes to those who are hurting and mentally ill.

The following are five things everyone should be aware of when it comes to their friends or neighbors. If you see someone with any of these symptoms, try to get them the help they need:

  1. Confused thinking;
  2. Excessive fears or anxiety;
  3. Social withdrawal;
  4. Strong feelings of anger;
  5. Inability to cope with daily problems.

As you can see from the above list, most mass murderers fall under several of these categories. We also need to keep track of what’s being said online. A lot of these killers start to show their anger before they act. Don’t be afraid to let authorities know.

Too often people are aware of the strange kid down the street, but don’t do anything about it. If nothing else pray. Pray for the safety of the community, pray for the person who seems to be having issues. And pray that someone close to that person can actually find a way to help before it’s too late and we have another national tragedy on our hands.

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What is going on with our boys these days? In just a month, I’ve heard about two football players tackling a referee after a play, and then another who sprayed IcyHot into the face of an opponent. footballCollege boys shouted out to a young girl who is of Indian descent calling her a derogatory term. And don’t get me started on the college perverts who have sex with girls too drunk to know what is happening.

The sad part about our society is boys are no longer becoming men. They remain boys who think they are entitled to do anything they want without consequences. The reason is twofold: 1) Fathers have been removed from the families; and 2) The males in the home are no more a man than the boys they are raising.

It takes a strong woman to raise a boy to be a man. Most women are not up to the job.

fatherEphesians 6:4, Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Children need to be brought up learning right from wrong. These days, parents
would rather be friends than disciplinarians.

Women have tossed men aside and out of the families. Then they end up bringing a stranger into the home and have more children. The boys from the prior relationship get neglected and ignored not just by their own father, but from the mother as well.


Instead of treating your child like how you were treated. Treat them with the same love and attention you wanted from your parents while growing up – Jonathan Anthony Burkett


How do you know if you’re doing a good job as a parent to a boy? Here’s a short guideline:

  1. Is your son courageous? I’m not talking about willing to join a gang, but would he stand up to a coach who tells him to hurt someone needlessly?
  2. Does your son show honesty and integrity? Basically, would your kid cheat to win?
  3. Have you raised him to respect others? Would he go so far as to protect someone from friends who might want to take advantage of another person or bully them?

The faster you answered these questions, the more likely you were wrong. We need to bring back courage, integrity and respect in our males. The best way to do that is with men who hold those same qualities.

The past thirty years is proof as to how badly boys need a good male role model. Women just don’t seem to cut it. And until we, as a society, face that fact, we will continue to see weak behavior in the guys in this country.

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